I am 21, I was wondering if anyone else around my age finds older men attractive ? The oldest guy I've talked to & recently had sex with is 45... Some of the BEST sex I've had in a while ! There is just something about older attractive men in there 30s or 40s that just is sexy.. I think for me its the fact that they know what they are doing. They are EXPERIENCED, & know what to do for you & are more apt not to turn out to be fuckboys that we know of today.