advice??

So when me and my ex boyfriend were together we literally always had sex constantly.every time he came round my house we would always have sex.its not like I didn't enjoy our sex cause I was madly in love with him however sometimes I wasn't in the mood and he'd say okay but then try turn me on and constantly try until I did.its not like I was saying no whilst doing it however he just always wanted to do it and sometimes just try stuff automatically like start rubbing me or just try pull my pants down.everytime I questioned him about it he just said its cause he's so attracted to me and in love he can't help and he loves me even more after sex.is this right like was this okay I just wanna know?