Too much body hair!

My body hair is ridiculous. But the places I'm mostly concerned about is my butt and my vagina. Like, you can notice the hair on and in between my butt cheeks. And I grow hair all around my vagina (not inside of course lol). 
Shaving is so annoying. Like whenever I decide to fully grow out my hair and shave just those two places, my drain to my bathtub gets clogged. And it starts to grow back the next day.
I've waxed my butt once, terrifying experience. I cried so much. Vagina, never tried. What should I do? Continue to wax? Or laser? I don't know. It's so embarressing. I don't even have sex bc of it