Ok so my husband and I decided in November to start trying and I stopped taking my birth control. But since then and especially around the holidays he keeps changing his mind. Back and forth about whether we should try or not. Last week we decided to not actively try, just have fun and if it happens it happens. He's worried about not having enough money. We are definitely emotionally ready and we both have good full time jobs with amazing benefits but he still thinks we don't have enough. Does anyone else have these problems with their significant other always changing their mind?! It's making me go crazy. And to top it off there is a good chance that I have gotten pregnant but I'm waiting to see if I miss my period which starts on the first.