Some people wait until they are 12 weeks to teld friends and family they are expecting. I understand I lost my first baby at 6 weeks and it was hard everytime people asked me how was my baby. But now I am 5 week and just told my parents and sister. But only them. My SO asked me to wait the 12 weeks becuase he is afraid that something could go wrong. I ask him that because we are afraid of loosing another pregnancy we aren't going to enjoy this one? We have to enjoy the moment and the excitement of this rainbow baby. Only God knows how thing have to happen.