Am I the only one?

That feels that it's a competition with other pregnant ladies????? Maybe not a competition  but like I'll post a pic of my belly and talk about my baby and then 5 other girls do the same...  I feel like we're all in a race to see who gets the cuter name, who has the best baby shower, idk, Maybe I'm weird....... I don't see it like that and I don't think it should be that way but I've lost friends because they were jealous that I got pregnant and they didn't.... could that be it???