Should I Keep This Baby ?

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So I found out that im pregnant two days ago . My boyfriend doesnt want me to keep it , and I'm having thoughts that i shouldn't. But I'm also thinking that theres no way I would live with myself if I have an abortion . I have a son whos a year and a half with another man who doesn't even live in this state anymore . My boyfriend says he doesn't want to go to any appointments , but he will be there for this baby if/after its born. Im so conflicted, I guess i just need some advice.

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This really isn't the sort of thing that should be decided by internet poll.

Please see the abortion support and/or adoption support rooms for better info on your options.

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It's up to you. Do YOU want a baby? It doesn't matter about the father. Why wouldnt he want to go to your appointments? That's the best part! If you feel like you can do it, and you want to, go ahead!

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You can't make this decision based on a poll taken by other people.

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When I got pregnant he told me to have an abortion and I said no he said he wanted nothing to do with the baby. I didn't speak to him for 2 months and then he came around and was very apologetic. Even if he had not have done that I still would've kept my baby. I couldn't live with myself either if I had an abortion, even though it seemed like the easy way. It'll be hard, that's for sure, but you can do it. I don't understand why he won't come to appointments but will be there for the baby after? That seems silly to me. If he wanted to take that route I would make sure the baby has your last name and you put him on child support so that your child gets what he/she needs. You could also considering adoption... which I know is such a hard thing to consider. I couldn't ever do it, but I know so many people who want a baby and it'd be such a blessing if you were able to help them.

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Yes keep the baby. Keeeeeppp the babyyyyy 🤗🤗🤗🤗

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Keep the baby, abort the loser. 
Easiest choice.

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I would keep it. Either he will come around or he won't. But these are your babies!

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I know someone who had an abortion mostly because her partner wanted nothing to do with the baby. On the appointment day she was about to say no to the precedure and have the baby, yet she didn't and regrets it since that day. It's a very personal decision but if you want the baby, don't do what your partner thinks is best without seriously thinking about having the baby!

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There are so many people who wish they were pregnant including myself. Let me tell u I had a abortion when I was 20. I couldn't care for myself I regret that decision everyday of my life especially after having a miscarriage in August of this year. But we can tell u what we think but you are the one who has to live it. If that makes sense

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Yes keep the baby! When I first got pregnant with my son my bf said to get an abortion. I am completely against abortion's unless there is a medical reason; I told him no I was keeping our baby and I gave him a choice because I made mine to either be there or leave. All he'd have to do is sign his rights away and have no contact with us what so ever. He didn't, he choose to be there; I'm not gonna make a hard decision based on what my bf wants it take's 2 to have a baby and if he doesn't want to be there then don't... bye bye byd but I'm keeping my baby. My son is 3, my bf is a great dad and I would have regretted making a decision I didn't want to do because I was told too! Think long and hard.

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