I have two friends who have been married to each other for over a little year now and have been together in all for 10 years. Just this past week, I found out his wife wants a divorce and has been staying over at our other friend's house almost everyday. The way I see it, the divorce is not entirely the husband's fault, his wife isn't completely innocent in this picture. On his side, it's his behavior and attitude and on hers, it's the "flirting" with the intern at her work (I put flirting in quotation marks because there's some sexual contations in their conversations plus other people in their office have noticed this flirtation and as someone who's married themselves, I would not be okay with my spouse doing something like that). What's making me angry and their situation even worse is the friend who's house his wife has been staying at. For starters, she thinks that this divorce is entirely his fault, doesn't see anything wrong with our friend's behavior towards the intern, is basically encouraging our friend to cheat and told her "don't bring him (him meaning the intern) into this right now-- it's unfair, for the time being just make out and dry hump him. When the divorce is over, fuck his brains out." and on top of all this, thinks our friend's husband will rape our friend so she doesn't want her going back home to her husband's. I've known her husband for 19 years and he is not capable of that. Just last night, my friend finally came home but lied to our friend and told her she would be staying over at her mom's. Seriously? Why does she need to feel that she has to lie to our friend about where she's staying at??!