Ever since I was little my mom and I never seen eye to eye. We say things to each other but not like a full mother and daughter relationship, like my friends or some daughters have with their mothers. For example, mothers who tell their children good morning, goodnight, ask how their day was, yada yada. It's so difficult to talk with her about things. I have depression, anxiety, ADHD, potential eating disorder. Which makes it hard to express how I feel because I need advice sometimes or just have a fun conversation.  But.. she doesn't know how to do it. If I try to have a conversation with her it always turns into a screaming match or always has something negative to say or what I say just goes through one ear and out the other. I'm 20, and as a young adult I need advice and communication. Especially if my family is miles away so all I have is her. But do I really? Do any of you have advice as to what I should do? Some girls/woman don't have a mother so and since I do I want to have a nice relationship with her.