breakup and finding myself again?

Question

I just broke up with my boyfriend of 9 months, I wasn't feeling the same about him and of myself. How do I find myself again? I feel like I've changed so much from being broken so many times... How can I have fun and find myself again?

Answer

Gosh that is a hard question. I would say time and just being you .personally i feel like after every brake up i have never been the same . My last one really took a toll. It is really unfortunate for my current SO i feel like being heart broken so much ive just become more bitter and hes only left with just a small fragment of who i use to be an now i am just angry. Best of luck for you .

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I recently just went through this. If it helps, I'll give you advice on what I did. 1) Distance yourself away from anyone who you believe could attached to him or your old relationship. I don't know if that's something you'd want to do, but it helped me move one a lot faster than before. 2) Be the you that you want to be. I know that sounds easy, but you have to go through something tragic before knowing who you are. 3) Love yourself and surround yourself with good, caring friends who love you for who you are. If you have a friend who doesn't agree with what happened, get rid of them. I know it sounds awful to say, but they will end up turning on you. 4) Put yourself out there girl! Be careful on how you do so though. Don't rush into another relationship or else crap will start. I hope I helped at least a little bit😂 Good luck!

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Nobody can answer that for you. 
You probably need to be alone for a while and stay single and focas on yourself. Pick up some hobbies, maybe travel somewhere with some friends. Maybe it's not about finding yourself maybe it's about growing into yourself and you will. Just give it time.

breakup and finding myself again?

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