military spouses! help!!!

Alright military mommies I need some help. We just got orders on Friday and are pcs'ing outta here! Only thing is our leave date is february 1st. So, depending on when baby comes, I may or may not be here for our 6 week appointment. Stressing big time! Aside from that, this is both of our first times pcs'ing and we'll be doing it with an infant. Any advice?? What all can and should I do before our leave date to help take some of that stress off of us?? We have to find housing, child care, a new job, doctors, veterinarian, etc. Anything helps!!