Should I or shouldn't I???

Question

My boyfriend and I have been together for over 2 years now, and live together and have a pet cat etc. 
I've been feeling a bit flat towards the relationship for the past 6 months or so, and have been struggling with this. He is very OCD and continually makes me feel like I'm not good enough or I'm lazy, just because I don't want to polish the coffee table everyday! I am a tidy and organised person, but in his eyes, I'm not. If I ever make a mess, such as spill a drink by accident, he goes mental and shouts and swears and huffs and makes me cry, but he never feels bad or apologises for over reacting. I've told him multiple times how I feel and he'll be fake nice for a day or two and then he's back to normal.

What should I do? I don't know how many more times I can deal with his anger before I just up and leave!

Please help!!

If you think I should break up with him/ suggest a break, then please let me know how I can approach this - I'm very weak at the moment and scared.
If you think I should stay with him, please let me know what I can say or do to change the situation!!

Thanks xxx

Answer

I think he needs to realise the extend of his disorder, I believe this is a situation that can be worked on instead of leaving but that is tottally up to you dear I don't know what it's like in your house. Lots of communication is key here

Answer

Honey if I were you I'd write a list of the pros and cons of staying. That will give you a better insight and may even give you the answer you're looking for. 
If he's repeating his behaviour after you explain how it makes you feel and considering how you've been feeling towards the relationship I think it's a clear indication of what you should do, but that's my opinion.
You could sit down with him and say your having second thoughts about the relationship and give him the reasons why and suggest councilling for both of you or just him, if you want to make it work. But please keep in mind no one deserves to be treated like that. EVER. 
If you want to leave, make a plan with family and/or friends to help you find another place to live etc.
Good luck and only you know what's best for you x

Should I or shouldn't I???

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