shut down

When you wake up a few minutes early & roll over to your man,  "Lets have sex." .. you whisper. And his reply, "no". 
Ouch! I'm pretty sure I've said no a few times, but this hurts more. Particularly because the last time we talked about our sex life, he recommended I just ask for it/initiate it when I want it. Which is hard for me, idk why, we've been together 7 years. 
Anyway, just needed to vent. I'm sure if we all shut down after getting a "No", we'd all be pretty dry right? Ha. 😏😂🙄