been MIA

Hey ladies! Sorry I have been MIA! I had emergency surgery Thursday afternoon for an umbilical hernia that had been cashing severe belly aches and painful cramps! So I have been off the internet for a few days and just not logging, it's my fertile week and we had sex Friday and nothing since because it was too painful Friday lol, hoping to try again today since it said my best fertile day would be nov. 1 I was wondering if you ladies would just pass on this fertile window if you were me or try to suck it up?