Denying middle of the night sex!

So in the middle of the night when he randomly wakes up and just attacks me with his penis and has sex with me, it's okay. But when I wake up in the middle of the night and I'm the one that is horny, I gently wake him up and say "Baby, I'm horny..." while touching his ALREADY HARD PENIS!!!! He says no...... BITCH I get horny too! Does this happen to any of you ladies? When it does do your feelings actually get hurt? I'm hurt because he turned me down when I never say a word about it when he wakes me up, but when I do it, I end up having to lay in bed next to him and try to please myself while his ass is sleeping. Because if I don't then I can't go back to sleep! Ugh... SO FRUSTRATING.