HELP!! is this normal?!

Question

four weeks ago i was with my significant other and he fingered me really intensely and horribly, it wasn't enjoyable whatsoever it hurt really bad. after I started bleeding. So i'm pretty sure he broke my hymen, but ever since i have had no sexual desire at all. i haven't felt "horny" since almost four weeks ago. this is worrisome because i haven't never felt like this before and i know it is not normal... do i need to go see the doctor?? i don't know what is going on??

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I would talk with someone. You can definitely get some tips on how to handle situations like that. I sounds like you had a bad experience and it turned you away. That can happen and there isn't anything wrong with it. You just want to make sure you know how to move forward.

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Hymens don't break, that's a myth.

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I think what you're feeling is completely normal. You had a traumatic experience, physically and sounds like mentally as well.   
How do you feel about how it went?  Did it hurt so much that you are scared to try again?

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Are his nails long? He could have cut you like that. I would go to the doctor just to make sure you don't get an infection from it if it hurts that bad.

HELP!! is this normal?!

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