So my brother wants me to go camping with him, when he comes back from deployment in January. Our friends will be coming too. He can visit family for 2 weeks but then has to go back to virginia. Then he goes to japan for 2 years, but the problem is my husband.

For some reason he does not trust me, im 10000% loyal and i never ever cheated on him before. Its actually him the one that use to cheat on me. Im pretty sure if i tell him i want to go camping with my brother, he will just tell me No and try to keep me home with him.

I mean, do you think its ok for me to go camping with my brother and our friends? We will be 3 hours away. My husband wont be coming because he works and the camping trip will only be for 2 nights. My husband is very insecure and always has to look through my phone if im doing something im not suppose to be doing. I know that when i tell him, he is going to flip his shit. What would be a good way to say that i want to go camping with my brother without him thinking i will do something.