sex. no cuddles. no hugs.

El
So things are not too hot with my husband. We have sex... a lot! Which is awesome but then none sexual touch is not there. When I try to cuddle he just puts his arm on top of me like I'm a pillow and after maybe five minutes says it's too hot and I need to get off. His kisses me fast, I have to often say "no a real kiss, like you mean it." And when he hugs me it feels weak and his hands never completely cross and bring me in. I got the flu bad yesterday and instead of sitting by me and having a hand on my back or leg for moral support, he sat three feet away and stared, just stared. He never smiles when we are out together but when we went to watch the game with his friends this past Sunday he couldn't stop laughing and smiling ear to ear. 
I get more genuine love from our one year old. I'm just tired of feeling like he only cares to touch me with his dick. :/ advice. Please.