Okay so I was dating this guy for about 3 month. Things got serious very very very quick. I noticed about him that he would sleep a lot. Jokingly one day I asked if he was depressed and he told me he might be. However, this guy is really funny and goofy so I wasn't sure if he was serious or not. Anyways, it turned out to be that he actually is. But that's fine I could of worked with him and help him through it. Wednesday night we were together all day and perfectly fine, actually we were really good. The day next he started acting like a complete ass just ignoring me and treating me like shit. I left him have his space, Friday it was the same thing. He wouldn't answer my calls or texts. If he would answer my calls he would just hang up or leave messages on seem. This wasn't the first time he did this. I was trying to get him to talk but nothing. I was fed up and told I was done with the relationship and he said ok. Nothing else, although we were together for 3 months. I fell for him hard because we spent a lot of time together and the way we met etc. anyways I was pretty hurt by it, he wouldn't even give me a response on what changed. Like 2 days later I call him flipping out demanding answers and he gave me a bullshit excuse. Yesterday he texted me because he owes me money telling me he'd give it back sometime next week. I told him ok, he started asking me why I was so angry and actually was trying to keep a convo and give me answers. By the way things were going it sounded like things got better. He asked me to get ice cream with him but than cancelled because he was busy. Anyways, I ended up driving by his house and his car was there, and I asked his roomate who was outside of he was home and he goes yeah, he's watching tv. So I called him after, like 4 or 5 hours laters telling him we couldn't be friends because I still do truly have feelings for him. He said he understood. What is really fucking with me is that he seems delusion about what he told me a few days ago and what he told me now. He told a different reason on why he was acting the way he was acting and yesterday he told me a different reason was apologizing and practically hitting that he waned to get back together. Now I'm beyond confused. I don't know if I should ask him to talk ? Or if I should just leave it ? I don't want him to think I'm being annoying. He is very complicated. We are both 21