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Question

I had our son three weeks ago and myvsex drive is through the roof.

My husband refuses to have sex with me despite my dr clearing me and his " intense sex drive"

Last night we were talking and I asked if he's been jerking off Bc it doesn't make sense how he's refraining and his actions lately. He said yea all the time.. i said where am I he said in bed or walking around the house..

I feel so annoyed last time he found porn in my tablet he made me feel so dirty like that intimacy was supposed to be together not alone.

I'm prob being crazy but I'm so angry and hurt I cried all night and he said then you wonder why I don't want sex from you

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I gotta say that three weeks seems too short. I've always been told to wait six weeks and even then it was a bit uncomfortable. I don't even wanna think about what it would feel like after only three weeks.

Your husband sounds full of double standards and really awful for telling you he didn't want sex from you because of your upset. If I was in your position I think I'd be upset too. I know you're probably feeling rejected by him right now but try talking to him when you're not upset. No amount of masturbation can or should replace a living breathing flesh and blood woman.

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So it's okay for him to jack off and please himself...without you.
But it's not okay for you to watch porn to get some pleasure, too?
That makes no sense. He's being selfish af.

Try and talk to him calmly, maybe. Make him understand how it's not fair and how it makes you feel that he's pleasing himself instead of coming to you for intimacy like he should be doing.

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What did you do for him to say and you wonder why I won't have sex with you? I have a high sex drive too,

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