i feel like my husband is a bad father..
I know, this is absolutely horrible.
Let me start by I never really had these thoughts until last month when I was put on bedrest. Doctor said ONLY get up to pee. He told my husband he needed to be the one cooking, cleaning, taking care of the baby, etc.
He works 2 jobs, so i know its hard for him. The past few days, i have been overly emotional, stressed, in pain, etc. our daughter is almost 9 months old, she's been real fussy lately, probably because daddys gone alot and mommy cant really play with her, plus she has a cold.
Anyways, the past few days, she hasnt been wanting to eat much. She went from 7 bottles a day, to 3-4. Plus baby food. Today we got into a little argument, i asked him to feed her because it was 9pm and she hasnt eaten since 2pm (she refused to eat) she wasnt crying or anything and he was like "no, she isnt dying. She's not even crying."
Mind you im in bed, bleeding from my SCH, in pain, sick, barely can get up. This isnt the first time he has said this. He plays with her maybe a few minutes a day because he's "too exhausted" which i understand! But shes gets so excited to see him and he almost blows her off.
Even though im on strict bedrest he still expects me to cook and everything, which i do. He yells at me when i dont eat, but doesnt understand that im too sick.
The doctor has said over and over stress can kill our baby because of all the complications im having and it wont take much to put me into labor right now (im only 21 weeks)
I realize this is horrible. He's a great man and i would never say that hes a bad father but hearing him saying "she isnt dying" when i ask him to feed her is really making me question it.
He also refuses to ever bathe her, i have to do it because he works too hard. Yet he can come home and have the energy to work out..
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