Ok. I ve been with my hubb 11 years married only civil. But I want to get married by church but he doesn't believe he says it DOSENT make a difference. He still loves me the same. I really wanna have a church wedding...I had a big wedding when we got married 11 years ago but Only civil. I really want a church wedding, the dress ,, my kids holding the end of my dress... Walking down the ail....