why are guys douch bags????

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So my long distance boyfriend was supposed to come live with me in December. Now his cousin offered him and I a place to stay to share the rent with them. Great offer right? Well....I do not like TN I've spent a month there with him and became severely depressed the whole time, I've only met his cousin twice, and my cna certification will not count in that state as I'm from NC so I'd have to retake the class and I'm already accepted into a community college. He still wants to live with them k stead of with me and I'm
Just so broken hearted right now idek what to do. He says he's unsure about living with me because he's scared we will end up breaking up because of my parents and the way I've been acting (I recently got diagnosed with bipolar nos and haven't had the best treatment until now) I've also lost my best friend because of him. I need advice and I'm sorry this post is so long I just feel broken hearted and unloved and like I'll be forever alone

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Thank you ladies. I'll take all of your comments I to consideration

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He needs to understand that if he's not willing to live with you, he can't ask you to move to TN and live with his cousin. It's the same thing, just that if you were to break up you'd be at a loss instead of him. He needs to know what you'd be giving up by moving, and that with your current state of mental health it wouldn't be a smart idea. If you're only just starting to get proper treatment, he can't ask you to leave it and go somewhere likely to put you into a depression as well. He needs to think of your situation as well as his. Perhaps you can sit down together and figure out a living situation that would be better for both of you. And if he isn't willing to compromise for your health then maybe you need to rethink him too. I know it's tough, my boyfriend and I are both in depression right now and we also need to find a better solution. But it all comes down to the fact that you need to do it together. Good luck

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Aww man, not what you want to hear, plenty more fish in the sea!!!! :(

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Agreed if your heart and mind is telling you to not go. It's prob not the man for you. He's not putting your first. I'm sure it's ruff but you have to do what you want and what's right for you

why are guys douch bags????

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