So the last couple of times I have talked to my dads they keeps making comments that are starting to get to me... "you're making it harder on you and Jared (we were talking about moving to Michigan next december) because you have two dogs (one is a service dog) and soon a newborn". We were talking about me starting college after my son is born and he says "college is hard, let alone when you have a baby" and "Yeah, normally you go to college, get a degree and have a career before settling down and having a baby". and then today I was joking around about how adulting is difficult because I was dealing with Insurance and he made the comment "yeah even more so with a baby"... like yes ok I get it... I am 21, married, and now having a child this month. I know this isn't the perfect old school way to have a baby but its not like my husband and I are struggling at all. We haven't gotten help from anyone with getting things for our son, we have done it all on our own. It's not like I have been just sitting around since high school doing nothing, I was in the Army and deployed... sorry i dont have a career already... What does he want me to do... get rid of my dogs? Just get an abortion when I found out I was pregnant! I am happy, the happiest I have ever been and every time I talk to them they make comments like this that just break my heart. And the way they are saying it is in a sassy, smartass tone. I dont even want them to come when my son is born right now.
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