Okay so I'm really starting to think this may be our first month ttc because my miscarriage was in August and we were off limits until the 17 literally the day I ovulated late night (missed it) and September was my first cycle after the miscarriage so my cycles were out of wack and last month we used opks but I was super dehydrated and didn't drink lots of water so found out cm can be a big issue if you don't have it so now on to my question...me and dh have talked about it and this month we're just going to let it ride and not plan. So with that being said have sex every other day and temp each morning for confirmation of ovulation. Well with that being said we BD (had sex) the 2nd of November (cycle day 6) today's (cycle day 8) and if we wait till tmrw with him not ejaculating since Wednesday will that be bad sperm? He waited not one day but two days instead! Super new and please comment anything!!