House ready????

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What is one to do?? One spouse (Me 🙃) does not feel ready to buy a house but my husband is ready. Looking and purchasing a house gives me anxiety and fear instead of happiness and excitement. How is one supposed to feel when considering buying a house?????? Am I super weird????? Help please...

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There is a bit of nervousness  about it... but excitement  at the same time..   If your husband is planning on going over budget on a home could be worrisome. BUT if youre both stable,  with a good job  there  shouldnt be much to worry.... Just take your time and dont fall in Love with  every  house.

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I have always wanted to own our own home so you don't get told what you can and can't hang up, if you can have a pet or not. Plus paying for someone else's mortgage when you could be paying for your own was a huge draw card for us. It's stressful but once you've found a place and it's all done and dusted you won't regret it.. just be sure not to live outside your means and buy something you can't afford to repay.

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My mortgage ended up being lower than my rent, so both me and my husband were on board.  The process of buying though is an emotional roller coaster.  We didn't know if the seller was going to back out, or if the loan would get approved, or if we'd close in time; it was not fun.

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I didn't feel like we were financially ready to purchase a house, but I'm pretty neurotic about a lot of things, and my husband is very laid-back. We purchased our house and I'm happy we did. You need to speak with your husband about your fears.

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I hated the process. Glad I own now though

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My dad didn't sleep the night they signed on their first house.

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Nope not weird. My husband wanted to buy a house and i was on the fence cause i hadnt graduated college yet and still was working at a bs job. We came to an agreement tho. So we found a "cheap" manageable house with manageable  payments  just in case something happened to him i would be able to take over the mortgage payments.

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