Ex problems

Okay so!! I have an ex bf who's lives In San Diego! I live in arionza! I love this man! Giving the fact that things have happen between us! I broke up with him due to him talking to another girl! Giving the fact that I believe everyone deserves a second chance! He asked me to go see him and move out there with me and my daughter! But I'm scared to up and just leave! Ladies this man is my heart!  I tried everything to let go but no matter what we find a way to talk again! I'm believe on signs why? I'm scared to get hurt and him this man back in! I known him for 4 years but when dated it was bout 3 months! I'm not sure what to do! He says to going to coming out here to help someone move and he wants to see me and I want to see him! But I know I need to have a really good talk to him!! Ladies what do I do!!