should I be offended?

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Should I be offended that my boyfriend only has time to see me twice a week and we live 10 minutes from eachother. He works full time and goes to school full time and says he has so many things going on with homework. He said he was no time to see me more than twice a week. He never seems sad about it even though he should want to see me more. Should I be angry?

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Offended? Why would you be offended that he's taking his education and future seriously? Maybe you should do the same.

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Girl , he's focused and ambitious. You better appreciate that and stop complaining. That's where the money is at. He's showing hard work and dedication. Honestly if you want to stick around, I suggest you find something to help you get on the ball as well. Otherwise, you're gonna keep being needy. I know you miss him and that's great and all but if he's focused, he doesn't have time to be concerned about your feelings of missing him. He probably misses you too but succeeding seems to be a bit more important to him than wasting time with a girlfriend. Not saying he doesn't care or make you a priority because he seems to still be doing that, but you're probably gonna be a distraction if you come around. It's best for him and you. Play your part and you both benefit. I want you to get in school and be focused as well.

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If you want attention get a dog.

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I worked full time and took 6 classes. I had zero time. Twice a week is pretty good. He is doing good for his future which you should appreciate.

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You shouldn't be angry. I'm a full time mommy and full time college student, it's really really stressful. I understand how you feel, next time you see him just calmly talk to him about it and tell him how you feel. He should make a little bit more time for you, in my opinion. But full time college is already really stressful and takes up a lot of time I can only imagine how much more stressful it would be to be working full time too. Just talk about it! Communication is key.

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Well. Hun, first of all, don't listen to bitches telling you your boyfriend thinks you're " a girlfriend who he doesn't even know if she's gonna last". Such a cunt. 
Now... I know it's hard but twice a week is already great! College is hard and you should both focus on it because you want a future ( even though some people don't do studies and still have a great life, you chose to study so... that's what you want, I guess? 
If you really miss him that much, make those two times a week special, do exciting things and take pictures of you two!
Also I know if you miss your SO, just having him in the same room ( not even touching ) makes you feel so good... so maybe sometime try to study together? This way you'll be together but you'll still be doing homework! 
I tried this one on Wednesday but God... he was studying maths and I was studying phonetics but... we wrote a single page and then... you know... couldn't concentrate when around our other half 😩 
But what's really important is supporting your lover... It may seem he has no time for you and doesn't miss you but trust me, he does miss you. Think of your future. Think of both of you living together later, let this be your motivation because I'm sure it's his. 
Sending love 💕

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You shouldn't be offended. It's okay to feel emotional about it because I understand this. My man works 6/7 days a week. I work and have classes and homework, so we see each other once a week twice when we're lucky. Plus if we see his mom/my parents or his friends on our day together then we have even less time to ourselves. Remember that he's with you for a reason, make the time that you have together special, and talk to him about how you've been feeling. Remember why you're together and what type of man he is, remember that if this is something you want to last then you will have to endure seasons like this. The both of you will always be growing and learning, school is a vital part of becoming successful if the field you want to go into requires education. This will be a time when he is busy. If you are certain about your relationship and the feelings he has for you, just remember this is ONLY a season. It won't always be this way.

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No. he is focused on education and that should be his number 1 priority at this time. ( assuming he is young )

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I'm suprised he manges to see you two times a week. Lol when I was working and going to school full time I only went out once a month. Ease up on him.

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