You people on glow need to ease up. Everytime someone says something straight forward it's either they're being rude or slamming the next woman either way y'all just being way to sensitive about the whole thing when your asking for advice which is others opinions and feedback on your situation what do you want everything to be sugar coated for you or do you want to hear some real opinions " FEEDBACK" it is what you post for in the first place right or wrong ? everybody doesn't think or feel the same when it comes to certain things I don't see it people being asses I take it as honesty I'll rather a person be true then to tell me things they think I wanna hear I can tell myself that smh .. The truth hurts but when you choose the action, you have to accept the consequences. And if you can't stand the heat, then you shouldn't have lit the fire .. Simple as that 💁