questions to ask your doctor?

So I'm 23 married and pregnant with my second (not that it matters:) ) and when I went to in for my first appointment my doctor almost interrogated me asking my husband and I our professions, if we were married, if the baby and my son had the same fathers,if the baby was an oops baby, and basically everything under the moon. I felt annoyed because it didn't have anything to do with the baby but I decided I'm going to give her another shot she may have been trying to get to know us and didn't go about it the right way so I want to come in there prepared with some questions, I have some written down but what are some you guys have asked and are helpful?