if only he understood...

Don't ask what you can do- you know 100 things you could do to help- so just do it!
Don't make me tell you what to do- take initiative. 
Don't ask if I want you to get up with her (for once) just do it!
Don't make me feel silly for being nervous about returning to work when I get little help from you and see no plans to change that...
Don't ask why I'm so tired/emotional/not feeling frisky/...bc for me to feel loved right now I need a little help from you
Be like Nike and Just Do It!
No one will criticize the loose diaper or messy swaddle... 
Whatever you do I promise it will be great
I know you have it in you to be amazing...
But amazing doesn't ask-
It just does