Ok so like... we are getting married in... 94 days and are flying to the states to do so (we live in UK) I have been desperate for a baby since my teens (currently 24 years old and he is 36) and he has come round to the idea and does want kids but only "when we have the money". Now I know that will be never as he works in a shop and I am a care worker but he has said if it happened we would be ok. He's 36 now so tbh i kinda feel like we need to hurry up a bit. Is there anything I can do to show him we need to start trying seriously because if we wait until we have the money then its never going to happen. We arent poor and I know we would get by and all my friends are pregnant or have kids and it is killing me. I told him this but he doesnt understand the rush and doesnt really beleive we will never have the money. In hos eyes if we have kids now or in 5 years it makes no difference and to be it makes all the difference I really can't wait much longer.