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Me and my SO broke up for two weeks, in those two i was talking with another guy, my SO is unfomantic, he dont like giving flowers not chocolates or even write a good morning text, the other guy hes such a romantic, now am back with my SO and i feel confuse because is the same thing again

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You can't expect someone to change, break or no break. If he's not a romantic, he just isn't. My bf isn't. He got me flowers once and I freaked out and now he'll do it occasionally since I made such a big fuss ☺ but it's not in his nature to pour on the charm, lol.

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My DH is not romantic at all. We had a massive massive blow out once and I brought up how I'd like to feel special every now and then. Just a simple romantic gesture. And he finally got it. He brought me home flowers after a business trip this summer and every once in a while he will try. But you just have to Learn to love the man u have and sit dwn and talk

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This seems slightly selfish.. I don't mean this to be taken offensively, but do you do romantic things for your boyfriend? Do you give him massages without him asking? Cook dinners for just the two of you, initiate him sexually? Are you putting in your work? All I'm saying is don't always expect to be the one that needs to be 'woo'd' and you'll be dissappointed less :)

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Most guys are pretty romantic in the beginning.. Then when they have you they get settled and we like to have it spiced up occasionally.. That's why communication is key. Guys do not understand to just do this and that to make our days, we have to tell them, if not, they'll think everything is okay. You're only confused because someone has made you feel differently and you liked it and want your SO to do the same but he's completely different but you chose him first. I would give him a chance and speak to him that you want this and that to be different and if you're still unhappy and think about the other guy, then follow your gut because if you don't, you and everyone will be miserable.

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If you don't get what you want then ask for it. Ask him to get flowers for you, plan a date and tell him to choose the place... sometimes we have to teach them and yes, I know it sounds crazy but that has been working for me for the las 3 years 😊

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Most guys are pretty romantic in the beginning. This new guy is probably doing it to get in your pants. But don't string either along. Pick one and stick with it.

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