In-law advice!

Somehow I always end up being blamed or put down for a difference in opinion. When I got pregnant everyone was mad I was stealing my husbands brother and his wife's thunder. And this whole pregnancy no one has shown any interest in me or the pregnancy. Now that I'm due any day they are all expecting to be IN THE DELIVERY ROOM. I am really not okay with that. I don't want them there. They don't care about me. They just want to see the baby. But I don't think that means they have to see me in that state. I have a son, from before my husband and I were together and they don't ever ask about him or stop by to visit him(we live two miles away). They missed his birthday and make no effort to even know what's new with him. And then!! They get mad at me and say it's not fair that he doesn't love them. Or get mad that he get uncomfortable over at their house and doesn't want to stay long. He's the sweetest kid and he doesn't throw a fit. But if they hear him ask to go home they lose it. And I get blamed for not "teaching my kid to respect his elders.." it's so obnoxious. 

Anyway, I feel like I'm not in the wrong to not want them at the hospital. But my husband is saying I'm being unreasonable and they have just as much right as my family(who I am extremely close with and see almost everyday). It's causing drama right! I'm due literally any minute and they're making me stressed about having this baby. I don't want them to come just to see the baby, if you don't care about me, or my first son why should I let you hang around my house? It hurts my feelings. And I know I'm probably wrong... but 😡😡 

What do you think??