I have no one else to talk to so I know I can talk to you guys, it's 2:38 in the morning, I've been in bed with baby since around 10, anyways I haven't checked my phone since 9, so I get up at two to feed the baby and check my phone and have a text from my baby daddy saying "how do you feel about having another baby and me joining the army and moving into New Mexico?" (We live in California), first of all we haven't ever talked about him joining the army so for him to spring this on me, it shocked me. We aren't really in a relationship, I mean we are but we don't put a title on it because we are both young, and he's stuck in his "I'm still young I don't want to be tied down" so putting a title on anything makes him nervous and causes him to do something stupid. Anyways I don't think he realizes that us being a family and him joining the army means that we most likely have to be married and he has to settle down.....I have no idea how to feel or what to think....sorry i just needed to rant because I have no one else to tell. Anyone want to give me some insight on how it is to have someone you love in the army??? I've never had anyone I love in the army.