Anyone elses in laws show no interest in their pregnancy?

Just after you have the baby?

Like they didn't care at all for 9 months but then suddenly they are trying to come over, give input on names, (after baby has been named), want to watch him, hold him 24/7, question my parenting methods, yelling at me for not telling them the sex when we find out, (I told them we found out the sex and when they changes the subject to football I didn't tell them what it was).

They did not respond when I 'd go to E.R. with bleeding, change the topic when anything related to the pregnancy during was brought up, and gave no sign of caring at all.

I expected them to ask if I stopped bleeding and if the baby survived but nothing. It's like they didn't even know except to say on my dd she'll be holding my other leg during delivery.

Now it's like the last 9 months I was a test tube carrying my baby. And they then expect to have a say in how, and where I raise my baby. OH said they were the exact opposite with his SIL and didn't even allow her to stand more than 15 minutes during her pregnancy.

Oh they are strongly suggesting a change in the name, "if we had know you were going to name him Aiden we would have told you our cousins son has that name it should be (what they were going to name So's sister if she were a boy.)" And that they'll pay for it.....

Anyone else go through this? Am I overreacting to distance myself? Any advice?????

SO is kinda pissy but thinks I'm overreacting even though they didn't speak to me for 5 months and weren't getting any information about the baby, but when I went into labor they all tried to be in the room and up my cooch.

"That's just how they can be" no its not dear, SIL was waited on hand and foot.