I need advice girls

So me and my bf have been together for almost 7 months now, I live with my family he lives with his, I do not have a job or even a permit, and he's been upset about how I have yet to get a job which not having a licence makes it difficult for me since the only places to work in 5 miles of my home are limited to 3 places 2 which are not hiring atm, and he's been saying how he doesn't think I want a future with him because of it and that he feels like he's wasting his time and money seeing me because he has had horrible issues with exes in the past where they used him, and I'm worried I'll loose him because of all this, I'm trying to get a job and everything and my ex is willing to give me rides to any job in exchange for gas money but of course my bf isn't okay with the idea which I completely understand but I'm honestly running out of options here and I don't know how to get my bf to understand I want a future with him and I'm trying any way I can to prove it to him. I know I should have had my licence ages ago and a job, and just thinking about how fucked I am has been stressing me out so horribly latley and having my bf saying how he doesn't think I want to be with him and he can't keep wasting money to come and get me every other day is really making me upset.. :( he has lived on his own before and everything which i understand he hates living with his family and having no money after paying his car bills and everything else but for me I've never lived on my own or anything and I'm just afraid if I do figure out all of this and get a job and everything that what if he gets afraid I'll leave him or something and leave me.... like he has huge trust issues and to him he said no matter what he will always think the worst that I'll leave him or cheat or something and I know there is no way I can make him trust me but I sure am afraid I'll loose him from him fearing so much...