He forgot or just plainly didn't bother to get me a gift for New Year's Eve

So, I've been dating my guy for 3 yrs and I've got him iPhone, high end clothes, shoes, and basically a lot of other stuff. Where he would give me a box full of popcorn or chocolates for my birthday or just get my name tattooed on him, like ??? On New Year's eve I surprised with with another high end dress shirt, cashmere sweater and gloves to go with it and he plainly said "oh I didn't get u anything, is that okay?" And opened some cheap champagne outside in the cold, he didn't even take me to a restaurant we were just sitting in his car for the third year. Ladies is he using me? And when i had some cash in my pocket he just took it and was like I need this to buy u a birthday gift which was really shady.. And like I'm getting really tired of being a sugar daddy to my 30