Any Military wives? I'm a new military wife and hubby will miss birth :(

We have a 1 year old already and he decided to do this early this year which I only agreed to because he said he would get all these little breaks and times off . Turns out that's not true so the maternity pics I scheduled having to make it a mommy and me shoot lol and for my c section since we have no family where we live making arrangements with friends to watch my daughter and have my mom in the room with me . I'm super proud of what he's doing don't get me wrong just a little emotional to find all this out . He left 2 weeks ago so he'll miss the holidays as well . Expierenced military wives i know you've been doing this for years so props !!!