My husband and I are perfect... except for the fact that I grew up in the city (Buenos Aires, Argentina) and he grew up on the dirt roads. Going to NYC has been my dream since I was a little girl and my Bestie and I have made it a spontaneous trip . We already bought the tickets and all. We just always wanted to go SPECIALLY around Christmas.

Here is why my husband isn't going... he served in the military and he gets super anxious around big crowds so he would die there, he hates the city, he just doesn't have the money .

Of course I want my husband to go but as for the reasons I stated he cant. Should I feel guilty for not going with him ? He sure as hell is making me feel bad. Note, I'm only 21 and he is 24 and he wants to act like he is 40... he got pissed because I told him I wanted to go out just one night and explore with my BFF....

Like am I wrong?