trying to conceive

Alison
So my husband and I have been married for about a month and are actively trying to get pregnant.  I've been off the pill for a few months, and I'm feeling some symptoms but can't tell if they are a sign of early pregnancy or if it's just my period.  I had been on the pill for so long I don't remember what it felt like to get my period without being on the pill.  
I've been experiencing some tenderness in my pelvic area, I've been really tired lately, and I'm incredibly bloated.  I took two tests last night and both came back negative.  I'm due for my period on the 19th-ish, but this is semi new territory for me.  Any suggestions or feedback??