advice on visiting after a baby

Justine
Right everyone I'm fed up now my lg is 7 weeks old my mum plus who ever else always want to visit on weekends this is my hibbys lnly time at home works all week till 9pm I've said no to my mum coming with my brother and sister so all hell broke lose she's called me every name under the bloody sun including spiteful she only saw her on Wednesday and the kids saw her Sunday so what's the issue we are both being selfish apparently for not letting people visit one day even tho we had visitors on the Saturday and Sunday morning so wanted Sunday evening together why do people feel the need to see a baby weekly all I got was the kids can't see their niece during the week as they at school they finish at bloody 3!!!! She's made me feel shit saying I'm only interested in visits when we want money for cribs and prams even tho she's not bought anything she offered to pay for her crib gave me 20 quid and said she couldn't afford the rest yet 😂😂We've never asked for any money from anyone they've all asked if they could buy them!! It's also cause my and my hubby to argue because they want to come every single weekend and we're not spending any days together just us  no one else!! She also bought the kids to the hospital when I gave birth which I said no too