am I wrong

BabyDinoMom
Yesterday morning my husband comes home from work, I walk by fresh out of the shower and have my head in the towel and my dog looks at me like she doesn't recognize me. Husband says "she won't look at u, what do u beat her when I'm away?" I call her and she doesn't come to me and he says "look she doesn't even come to you, better. It be hurting my dog"(he is away 3-4 days a week on 24 hour shifts, I'm the one who plays, feeds and cleans up after the dogs, they are like my kids.). I turned around at him and say "are you fucking serious?!" And he says "no" as if he was surprised I stuck up for myself. I walk downstairs to get dressed with tears running down my face because as a woman who was brought up by a mother with a mental Illness and I was beaten half my childhood, I was incredibly offended and my feelings were hurt. 
He got mad at me because my feelings were hurt and "o my god it was a joke". Even tho it didn't seem like it. I told him my feelings were hurt and he basically told me to get over it. I told him to apologize and at least pretend that he cares for my feelings. He says "sorry u took it the wrong way". We haven't spoken for almost 2 days. Am I wrong? Is it wrong for me to want to feel he cares enough to apologize and comfort me? It's always my fault. And I'm always the one coming to him apologizing whether it's my fault or not.. I hate fighting. But I feel I'm owed an apology.