Where to start. I know my hormones have a part to play in this, because im usally a very go with the flow kind of person.

Tonight my husband goes 'oh yeah the family decided that each family is just going to pitch in 50 bucks and send his parents to a luxury resort for their Christmas present.(He has at least 12 siblings between the actual family and adopted children) I shouldn't hate the idea, usally i would think Sweet xmas for them is done and i can mark them off my list. BUT I got so mad about, idk, i hate being told what I'm going to do. And im not a big fan of his mom's right now either.

Yes she should be held as a Sant, she has taken so many kids out of foster care, including my husband.

I just feel like my mom gets the short end of the deal to him. No she hasn't adopted or fostered 20 plus kids but she would give her shirt off her back to a complete stranger. She is here for us 24/7 anything we would or could ever need she makes sure we have.

Then there is my husbands part in this. I am the one who doles out bill money and what money is coming and going. I pay most of the bills becuase i make 80% of our total income. He hasn't got that I want to stay home with the baby as long as my work will let me. 12 weeks. This year xmas will not be the same as in years past!!!!!! End of story. But I seem to not have got that through his head.

Anyone elses hormones or the stress of baby and holidays getting to them???

Kicker of the night and he really does mean it with the best intentions, my husband said that I really needed to take some time out for myself before the baby comes. Way to stressed to so that right now.