I need advice....don't know what to do. In January when I was almost 11 weeks pregnant I found out on scan that my baby had died at 8 weeks and 5 days. It was the most devasting time for myself and my husband. We are now pregnant again and I am 8 weeks today.  I have a reassurance scan booked for Friday but my husband doesn't want me to go, he just wants me to wait for my dating scan in December but it is 4 weeks away! I don't know what to do! I feel like I need the scan to put my mind at ease that at the minute everything is ok but then again I am terrified that I will have bad news again! I have had so many symptoms this time which I look at as a really positive thing but every time they settle I panick something is wrong! What would you do?