bf hates me?

What do I do when I'm pretty sure my boyfriend hates me! Like I don't know if he does I'm totally unsure because he hasn't broken up with me or ever hint at breaking up BUT he never makes me feel other wise and never talks to me. He is always busy never makes plans and if I ever bring it up he just deflects and says 'if that's what I think' and I'm totally in love with him but I only ever get the vibe that he doesn't give two shits about me but why wouldn't he just break up with me if he doesn't!? Is this like a 'boy' thing or is he just an asshole