Feeling really down :'(

My boyfriends friend has just announced she is pregnant to everyone and everyone is so excited. I can't help but feel jealous and I just want to shout to everyone 'we've been trying for 11 months' also a friend  of mine has just revealed she is pregnant. My cousin had just given birth as well as an old friend from school. I'm literally so upset but I have I be happy today as it's my boyfriends day of passing his driving test finally and he is in such a great mood! I'm so upset though, how hard do I have to try to get pregnant? I've been ttc for 11 months but only been tracking for 4 on glow. Meaning that was 7 months of just relaxing and unprotected sex! So many people have told me to just relax and stop tracking but I did that? What do I do now? I feel completely lost :'( I just want to give up now :'(