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I don't know what to do (please no negative comments)

So my husband and I are recovering from him cheating on me, we been working on us for 7 months now and things have been better and changes have been made which is great.

So we want to move to another state and although me going ahead to that state with my kids to live with my brother and mother to try and get a job and try to save money and hopefully be able to get a place and him stay in the state that we currently live in while continuing to work there and save up money, we have a joint bank account and I have my own separate account that I use for my pure romance business so I would have access still to the funds that he makes to help with setting things up in the new state.

Here's the thing though, I feel that me moving ahead of him with the kids wouldn't be good on our relationship/marriage because even though things have been going good I didn't fully recover from the infidelity and my trust isn't 100% there yet so I would constantly be worried about what he's doing and stuff.

What would you do in this situation?

Please no negative comments this is to be a friendly discussion

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