How bad does it hurt to have this done if needed? I'm 3 weeks away from my due date and pretty terrified about giving birth I'm petrified of pain that I can't control or someone else is doing and I'm petrified of having it and ripping so how bad does it hurt with epidural cause I plan on doing an epidural to ease pain as much as possible?!?!?!?!?!?!?! Someone calm me down lol but give it to me straight how bad is it?!?!?!?!?!?!