A good friend of mine who is 24 and got married 6 months ago said that she and her husband will start TTC when they've been married for 2 years have the first child  before the 3rd year of marriage, the next in the 5th year of marriage, and possibly a 3rd a little later. I hope her plan works out for her! Mine surely did not. I've been TTC for a year now. I've watched friends start to try, conceive, and now have newborns, all while nothing has happened for my husband and I. I don't think a lot of people realize how difficult it is to get and stay pregnant is. I just needed to get that off of my chest. I'm 27 now and I too used to have a 2 and 5 year plan once. 😞